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Did I get your attention with that title? This seemed like a great follow-up to last week’s podcasts. Maybe you think that there is no way to find a solution to every problem. Maybe you think not every problem has a solution. But the question was worded carefully. The qualifier “your” makes all the difference in this statement. The simple truth is there is a solution to your every problem. The solution when I put it out there is not one that will excite you. Maybe you won’t even want to admit that is the solution. If once I put this out and you have some resistance to the answer, I hope you will look into that resistance. Find out where the resistance comes from and why you are feeling it? It doesn’t matter if you believe the solution. It is real no matter how much you question it. There is a solution to all of your problems.
So quit beating around the bush and give you the answer already, right. Will do, the answer is plain. “You” are the solution to your every problem! This might not set well. You might think about all the things that happen outside of your control. You might consider all the times you were a victim. Now here again look at the statement I did not say that you are the reason for every problem. No, I stated that you are the solution to every problem. Things can and do happen that we do not cause to happen to us. It is not that you can control everything that happens to you. No, in this life there are some situations that are outside of our control. But at the same time there is no situation that we cannot exert some control over. Tony Robbins, my long-time mentor said “Every problem is a gift. Without them we wouldn’t grow” The biggest way to be a solution is to take control over our stories, thoughts, and labels.
How can I be the solution? You are probably asking. I’m doubting that you are comfortable in hearing that you are the solution to all your problems. If you are the solution, why is it that you still have problems? “There is no problem outside of you that is superior to the power within you.” said Bob Proctor, another mentor of mine. I know quite a few people that do not want to believe that they are the solution; they would rather see others outside of them and things that happen to them as a villain and themselves as a victim. Think about all those you know look to others to be the solution. Bosses, government, family members, church leaders they are a victim to all. Do you know anyone like that? How many of them get what they want and how many are happy? Do they have the life you want to have? You are the solution because you are the one with the power. The power is yours you can choose to be the solution you can choose to give up your power to others. It is all your choice.
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We are looking at the solution to all your problems. We talked about how you are the one that has the ability to find and implement every solution to counter the problems that you have. We talked about wanting things to be outside of your control. Most people want to shift the blame away for themselves. The problem with that is when you rid yourself of the blame you rid yourself of the power to change. You are not the reason for the problem, No! But you are also not powerless. There are things that you think and feel that contribute to the problems that you face. You did not ask for the problems, this is especially true in those that are abused. You did not cause it! But you do have power to change it. You can discover and implement boundaries that will keep you safe from that happening again. You do not need to have the government, or anyone else fix it for you.
So, if you are the solution to all your problems how do you make that happen? Well, there are a number of tools that we have discussed and many of them will help you become the solution. The first one is to look at and change your story. If your story is, you are powerless you will never take the power needed to move you forward. If your story is, you are waiting on someone to come and fix you. It will be a long wait and things will get worse before they get better. There are many people in the world who are looking for those willing to give up their power. Many of them are looking for people like that to take advantage of them. Even those that want to solve your problem, when you give them your power it makes the stronger and you weaker. Power is gained by overcoming the hard time. So, if they do the work, they gain the power. Do not give you power to anyone or anything. Part of your story is often that you see it as a problem. Seeing it as a problem puts you in the valley like we talked about in episode 211. Your story about your feelings can be getting in your way also. Then the thoughts you allow to move through your mind are going to make a big difference in how you feel and how to become the solutions to all your problems.
So how to become the solution. 1st devise a whole list of solutions that might work for the problem that you want solved. Come up with at least 10 possible solutions. You do not want to come up with one or two try them over and over and say see I told you nothing works. This is an important part. Do not judge the ideas you come up with. Write down all of them without judgement. Make each solution different from the others. Be specific with behaviors. You might even ask others whom you can trust for advice on solutions.
You have such power within you. You do not need any more than you have to implement what you want. If you move forward. If you put in the effort, you can create happiness in your life. If you can look around and see anyone else that has come from a place like yours and has become happy then you too have that ability.
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